Expert divorce coach for men

eet Founder Janine

When my marriage ended, it broke more than a relationship. It shattered the version of myself I had built around being someone’s partner. I was grieving a life, an identity, and a future that no longer existed. The process of rebuilding wasn’t quick or clean. It was raw, private, and deeply personal. I had to learn how to sit with grief, face the truth, and slowly reconnect with who I was without the noise or the roles.

That experience changed me. It taught me how to hold space for others who are also standing in that uncertainty. Men who feel angry, ashamed, or completely untethered after the end of a relationship. Men who don’t know how to move forward, let alone how to open up again.

As a coach, I bring both training and understanding. I hold degrees in communication, a master-level certification in coaching, and years of experience working in shadow work and masculine psychology. But more importantly, I bring perspective as a woman who’s lived it, and who can reflect back what many men haven’t been shown. What women actually respond to. What creates trust. What makes a man feel safe to be himself again.

This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about helping you steady yourself, find clarity, and begin again with more strength, presence, and truth than you had before.

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The Samurai self mastery course

Who This Is For

This is for the man who’s tired of pretending he’s fine.

The man who’s doing well in life, but still wakes up with a pit in his stomach.

The man who feels like something’s missing, but can’t name what.

You might be:

Going through a divorce or relationship breakdown

Numb in your career, disconnected from what used to drive you

Looking in the mirror and wondering, “What happened to me?”

Angry too often, or tired all the time

Pulled in too many directions, and not proud of how you’re showing up

What This Course Solves

You don’t need more motivation.

You need structure, clarity and a way to reset your life from the inside.

This course helps you:

Get control over your emotions instead of being ruled by them

Rebuild your confidence and self-respect

Make clear, strong decisions without overthinking

Stop feeling lost, passive, or directionless

Learn how to lead in relationships, not just react

Feel calm under pressure and proud of who you are again

What you'll get out of it

You won’t just “feel better.”

You’ll leave this course with a solid toolkit you can use every day to lead yourself through stress, conflict, and major life transitions.

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

Grounding techniques to stay calm and in control under pressure

Conflict tools to handle arguments, tension, and emotional shutdowns without blowing up or checking out

Burnout detection - how to recognise the signs early and reset before it takes over

Meditation tools that build focus, mental clarity, and emotional regulation

Journaling prompts to dig into what’s actually going on under the surface

Psychological insight into why you react the way you do and how to change it

Daily structure that supports your confidence, discipline, and sense of purpose

A clear personal code - your own values, boundaries, and guiding principles

Improved relationships because you’ll know how to communicate, lead, and stay steady

A stronger sense of identity - you’ll know who you are and how to move forward

Course weekly outline

Week1: The Warrior Code and the Midlife Transition.

Week 2: GI – Integrity and the Power of Ethical Decision-Making.

Week 3: REI – Cultivating Self-Respect and Respect for Others.

Week 4: YU – Courage in Facing Midlife Fears.

Week 5: MEIYO – Living with Honour and Authenticity.

Week 6: JIN – Compassion for Self and Others.

Week 7: MAKOTO – Aligning Words and Actions for True Integrity.

Week 8: CHU – Duty, Loyalty, and Responsibility in Midlife.

Week 9: Integrating the Virtues – Creating Balance.

Week 10: Facing Midlife Challenges Using Bushido.

Week 11: Developing Your Personal Warrior Code.

Week 12: Reflecting on Your Journey and Moving Forward.

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The Divorce recovery course

Who This Is For

This course is for men who are in a relationship that’s falling apart, in the middle of a separation or divorce, or already out the other side but still feel stuck or lost.

It’s for the man asking:

How do I deal with betrayal and still show up for my kids?

How do I find a lawyer who’ll fight for me without draining me financially?

How long do I wait before dating again so I don’t look desperate or broken?

How do I handle solo parenting when I’m drowning in exhaustion?

How do I manage co-parenting when she’s hostile and threatening to take the kids?

You feel angry months or years later and don’t know why it won’t go away.

Wake up feeling like an impostor in your own life.

Spend time around people but feel crushed by loneliness.

Cancel plans because you’re too anxious to leave the house.

What This Course Solves

This course gives you a clear system to make decisions, process heavy emotions, and rebuild your identity without falling apart or losing your edge. You’ll stop reacting, overthinking, and walking on eggshells and start taking steady, grounded action.

Here’s exactly what we help you work through:

Decide if your relationship is worth saving or if it’s time to walk away

Process betrayal, anger, grief, and resentment without exploding or shutting down

Communicate clearly in high-conflict situations or with a hostile ex

Create structure and calm while living under the same roof during separation

Stay present and strong for your kids, even when emotions run high

Handle loneliness, isolation, and the loss of identity after divorce

Rebuild confidence, masculinity, and self-respect from the ground up

Break patterns that caused past relationships to fail

Learn how to date again without confusion, neediness, or repeating mistakes

What you'll get out of it

You’ll walk away with structure, stability, and a stronger version of yourself—one that isn’t ruled by guilt, anger, or fear.

You’ll learn:

How to stay calm in moments of stress, panic, or conflict

How to speak clearly and directly, without shutting down or blowing up

How to process grief, betrayal, and anger in a way that doesn’t wreck your life

How to reconnect with your kids and build trust as a father

How to rebuild your confidence, energy, and purpose without relying on anyone else

How to approach dating again without dragging your past into it

How to avoid falling into old patterns and choose better, healthier relationships

You’ll use a toolkit built for men:

Breathwork and nervous system regulation

Emotional reset tools and journaling prompts

Communication scripts and conflict guides

Dating checklists, advice and guidance

Course weekly outline

PHASE 1: BEFORE DIVORCE – CLARITY & DIGNITY

Week 1: Should I stay or go?

Week 2: Betrayal and broken trust

Week 3: Living separated under one roof

Week 4: The hope to save it

PHASE 2: DURING DIVORCE – POISE & PRESENCE

Week 5: Separation with clarity and strategy

Week 6: Dealing with anger, loss and emotional Storms

Week 7: The Father role

Week 8: Loneliness, isolation and loss of Identity

PHASE 3: AFTER DIVORCE – REBUILDING IDENTITY, CONFIDENCE AND RELATIONSHIPS

Week 9: Who am I without the ring or title?

Week 10: Ready to date again?

Week 11: Dating mastery and skills

Week 12: Sexual confidence and relationship resilience

Discovery call

The Matchmaker’s Table

Discreet. Intentional. Designed for Men.

Exclusively for men

This is not a mixed-client agency or a volume-based service. We work exclusively with a small number of high-caliber men each year. Founders, executives, and those ready for a relationship that reflects their evolution.

Entry by invitation only.

Reserved for men who have completed The Rebuild, The Samurai Mastery Course, or engaged in private coaching with Janine for a minimum of 3–6 months.

Strictly limited access.

Only 24 seats annually: 22 VIP and 2 VVIP international placements.

Further information and breakdown

The Matchmakers table submissions are currently closed and will reopen in November 2025. To be considered please join the waitlist below.

Thank you

Janine

As a man, father, coach, and businessman, I often encounter confusing messages in today's world about what it truly means to be "good" in each of these roles. Navigating issues like male toxicity, absenteeism, and power-centric leadership requires a reset to become a strong, calm, and successful man.

Janine's programs have been instrumental in helping me realign my center, define my "why," and connect with my inner warrior traits. I've learned to do all of this in a calm, confident, and productive way.

Since participating in her programs, I find my interactions with people more meaningful, my conflict resolution more purposeful, and my perspective on life more impactful. I highly recommend Janine's programs to any man looking to navigate the modern world successfully.

Chris, Toronto

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